Honoring Those Who Came Before Us ... and making them proud

As I write this, I'm sitting in a hospital waiting room, outisde of the ICU. My grandfather is inside ICU and although my family and I have spent many days, and sometimes weeks, in this hospital and others near here, this time it seems much worse than before. I'm not sure if we'll be taking my grandfather home with us this time - but we're hoping for the best.

I'm writing this not as a eulogy to my grandfather, but to honor his life and what he's taught me. I am his eldest granddaughter so I know I have a special place in his heart (or maybe I'm making this up?). He holds a special place in my heart, too, because he's taught me about resilience, honor, hard work, having a strong work ethic, and treating people with respect and dignity.

My grandfather came to the U.S. as a refugee, just as my parents did, so he speaks from experience when he says a strong work ethic is important. He's raised 5 daughters and he means so much to his grandchildren and great grandchildren.

Many people throughout the world don't have the opportunity to be with their loved ones when they pass away. While I don't know if this is my grandfather's time, I'm grateful to be here with him and try to keep his as comfortable as possible.

I hope we turn the tide and we see happier days ahead. Please keep our family in your thoughts.

Best,

-Megy